Black woman and asian dating
But this whole idea of a forum dedicated to just Asian/non-Asian dating tickled my curiosity, so I just started an online search for similar groups.
These were all things I was interested in, so I decided to blog about them so I could add my own spin to things.I thought about the things I’d experienced when I was dating, and what I would’ve wanted to know before dating Asian men.When it comes to writing articles that related to dating or my own relationships, I focus on the positive and negative things about dating Asian men.Dating in general has its ups and downs and I’d like for my readers to remember that this happens regardless of who you’re dating.I went to a big state school and that was when I met men of various ethnicities and befriended them.However I never really considered dating them because I figured they wouldn’t want to date a black girl. I was pretty surprised at the number of Japanese men that aggressively pursued me. When I returned to the states, I moved to a diverse area.
I didn’t turn down men of other races because a good-looking guy is a good-looking guy and if we click, we click. I decided to create my blog when I came across a forum for Asian men and non-Asian women.
But overall I just found myself a bit more attracted to Asian ones. Most of the forum topics skewed towards Asian men/white women pairings and I got a sense that the black women were feeling a bit left out.
Sha Sha La Perf is a black woman who’s blog, My Boyfriend is Asian, discusses black and Asian pop culture as well as issues around dating Asian men.
Today she shares with us how she ended up dating Asian men, the issues she’s faced, and why she started her blog.
I didn’t find myself interested in Asian men until I was in college.
Before that I lived in a predominately Black city, and there were few Asian men around.