Lesbans dating straight women
We found ourselves bright eyed and bushy tailed over a straight girl. Either they had repressed it for a long time and are NOW willing to explore it--OR they were ALWAYS willing to explore it IF the opportunity arose--and KNOCK KNOCK--here YOU are!! Don't get me wrong, there have been many a straight girl that decided they REALLY liked the other side of the rainbow -- BUT, BUT BUT that's because there has always been an OPEN aspect of their sexuality to begin with.
Or we just can't help ourselves because she is---well-- TOOOO DARN FINE!! The problem isn't so much in the "CRUSH" aspect of it--that's only natural--especially if she's sweet and REALLY your type.Hey, I'm the eternal optimist, and I say go for that BIG ' STRAIGHT' CATCH--IF that "Straight" girl is giving off some serious flirt vibes.BUT-- be WELL AWARE that ONE of these many things can potentially happen (Don't say we didn't warn yah!): 1) Your efforts to acquire a real date with that straight cutie serving you a big smile with that Café au lait at your local coffee shop actually worked!!You were correct in your assumptions and actually HELPED the "straight" girl find what she's been missing (no not decaf! ) And you guys run off and live happily ever after, sipping endless Café au laits (hopefully for free) while skipping off all high on love and caffeine into the sunset --hey, CAN happen!The new term floating around town is called "Sexual Fluidity" and I do like this term very much instead of all the ever changing LABELS.
It simply describes that as people progress through life they are more open and "Fluid" in who they love or are attracted to--and the sex of the person is unimportant.
But it's more the "CONNECTION" that drives them to be more intimate, without putting any kind judgment on themselves (LOVE IT!
) I really enjoyed a CURVE piece about a young women Dominique Cowling's description of her personal ' Sexual Fluidity" experience-- see here: Yes, this "Fluidity" thing does exist and Straight people can, and do change everyday--BUT there are also the many, many Straight people that stay EXACTLY the same. THIS is what you have to watch out for--are you fishing in a dead sea of straight girls, or do you have a live "Fluid" one on the line just dying to jump out--hopefully onto YOU!!!
2) OR-- You missed your mark dear --big frowny caps :(((--and you misunderstood her kindness and friendliness for "Flirting" (Honest mistake!
) --and she politely says she's flattered but she is VERY happy playing on her home team. Just get RIGHT back into the game and go up to bat for someone else!
3) OR-- You offend her beyond belief because she is a staunch conservative--and makes a VERY BIG deal out of it by telling the entire universe about your terrible advances--and now you would like to run into the nearest mole hole you can squeeze into.