My best friend is dating my crush
It's simply ridiculous to take such matters seriously, if the match is formed then one should rejoice in its possible success, there is plenty of meat for everyone no need to be greedy.
but TRUE friends are worth hanging onto and once the dynamics of the friendship change there is no going back once you cross that line and disappoint your friend!! and should be treasured as they are gifts from God! So constantly living your life in fear of losing something or according to what others want or how they feel you will miss out on your own life. Is it okay to date someone that your friend has a crush on??Is it okay to date someone that your friend has a crush on??The friend doesnt necessarily have to be a close friend, but someone you know and trust.And the crush situation is just that.a crush..nothing had ever occurred between the friend and the crush.Does the friend have a right to be mad at you or are you at fault for dating someone that you know your friend is interested in? If your friend is a reasonable person and sees that you are happy and obviously her crush has not interest inher she will understand.I know I know, it might hurt the friend's feelings but not if you come to your friend first and talk to them instead of just jumping at the opportunity.
I think for both scenarios (close friend or not) the talk is fine with the same approach.
If this, "You know he/she appraoched me and asked me out..." is not true, then both of you (you and your friend) can adore this hell of a cutie.
i love mine bruin jan, you know that you are talking kaka. The friend doesnt necessarily have to be a close friend, but someone you know and trust.
Does the friend have a right to be mad at you or are you at fault for dating someone that you know your friend is interested in? If it's not a very close friend then it doesn't matter as much as a close friend.
However it would still be rude to date someone who is your "friend's" crush.
You shouldn't because it will her your close friend's feelings but if you really want to and see that it is a crush that isn't going away, there are things you can do. Saying something like, "You know he/she appraoched me and asked me out, but I didn't agree because you like him/her also. " Your close friend might be OK because if nothing is going to happen between him/her and their crush, then why shouldn't you date the person?